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Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Familiars (After a short rant)... I'm in an odd mood, forgive me :)

I had a request to do a video for this subject, and I intend to, but for now I'm sticking to my blog because this is so much easier than fighting with my webcam, YouTube, etc., plus the quality sucks unless I record while I'm running Ubuntu, but then I can't upload. Argh! Anyway, my husband is working on a fix for that little issue, and if I have it within the next couple of days, I'll post a video. Otherwise, well, I'll still probably post because it's been too damn long! Ok, rant over :)

This word, "familiar," gets tossed around quite a bit. For this particular topic, I even asked about it on another website. Sorry, I'm sleep deprived and in a rambling mood... There are a lot of people out there who honestly seem to believe that a familiar is nothing more than a common pet. Very far from the truth. Though you may love and adore Fido and Whiskers as if they are your own children, that does not make them familiars. Have you seen the movie Eragon (I haven 't read the books, so I'm not sure how it is in those)? You know that bond between dragon and rider? Well, the relationship of familiars and their Witches can sort of be compared to that type of relationship.

Familiars can come in many forms, though the most common (or at least according to books and personal accounts) seem to be cats, dogs, reptiles of some sort, and other small creatures that could easily appear to the "Muggles" (yep, I'm a Harry Potter geek lol) as nothing more than a very devoted pet. So how do you distinguish between a pet and a familiar? Well, that may be simple or very difficult. Many pets are drawn to magickal works, but familiars will be more than simply curious. They will be drawn to it as if to assist you (and they can assist you, for the record). There is usually some type of psychic connection between the Witch and his or her familiar, as well, which goes deeper than simply sensing when he or she needs food or the like. The connection is deep and powerful, as if you know each others thoughts, feelings, needs, etc.


As I mentioned before, I posed a question about familiars in a forum I belong to for Pagans. I got a few responses, but this quote is by far my favorite and it really sums things up: "I feel that pagans tend to name any animal that comes in their house this title in their head when the animal is just thinking 'omg does she have bacon?'"

If you have acquired any magickal tool (besom, cauldron, tarot cards, runes, athame, etc.) by "feel," meaning you waited for the right one to come along then suddenly when you found it, you just KNEW, the experience of meeting your familiar might be comparable to that. I feel that you do not choose your familiar, but they also do not choose you. I feel that it is a mutual, spiritual bond/agreement between the two of you, formed somewhere in time and space, though not necessarily in this lifetime. For example, if you believe that this is not your first lifetime (and/or if you believe that you have multiple lifetimes all occurring at the same time, because time is not linear), you may have found each other in a previous lifetime. There may be lifetimes where you do not have your familiar at all. There may be lifetimes when your familiar passes and returns to you later in another form during the same lifetime for you. No one can really say for certain.


My personal belief is that you have one (or at least no more than a very, very few) familiar throughout the course of your lifetimes, and your familiar returns to you during the lifetimes in which they are needed by you or vice versa. 

You can always try to call for your familiar during any lifetime through meditation, ritual, etc. if for some reason you feel you need them and they aren't with you already. 


I'm exhausted and probably not making much sense at this point, so I'll cut this off with one parting thought. Familiars are not the same as familiar spirits. Familiar spirits are a whole other thing, so don't confuse the two.

Monday, May 16, 2011

Just a quick update

I have a couple of video and blog ideas lined up for soon, so stay tuned. I'm basically redoing my place right now (spring cleaning and whatnot, plus we have to replace the bathtub), and I'm still adding things to my BOS from my BOM, trying to get things out the way I want, and once I have some of that done, I'll start posting about some of it (cleansing and that sort of thing, at least at first). If you want to see something or read something, let me know!

Friday, May 13, 2011

I've been MIA because it's been a shitty month (slightly graphic)


First, I ended up in the ER a couple of weeks ago for severely bruised ribs from a fall and my husband trying to catch me lol. Then, my daughter got sick for the first time (ear infection). Then, Sunday (Mother's Day), my husband woke me up to tell me that one of our three kittens, Tiny, had passed away that morning. Then Monday, her sister Mischief passed away around the same time. And yesterday evening, Tuxedo died in my hands while we were waiting for my husband to get home with stuff to feed him, to try to save him. Now, I can't sleep because every time I close my eyes I see his tiny body shaking as he tried to keep breathing right before he passed. I don't deal with death well as it is, but he was the first death that I've actually witnessed, and death is one of the few things that causes me to have nightmares now.Hopefully this blog will actually post this time. I've been trying to get it posted for two days.

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

I Will NOT Celebrate the Loss of a Life

I'm sure that at least most of you have heard about the death of Osama Bin Laden.

There has been quite a bit of celebrating going on because of this event, but I am not amongst those who are partying. I do not feel that it is right to rejoice in the killing of anyone, regardless of how hated and "evil" they might have been. Once upon a time, that person was someone's son, someone's lover, etc. He was a person. Would you be celebrating if it was your son, daughter, father, mother, lover, spouse, sister, brother, etc.? I am in no way defending him, because what he was behind was heinous, but that doesn't mean that I have to celebrate because he will not be seeing another day in this life. I am happy that he will not be able to do any more harm, yes, but that doesn't mean that I will be celebrating. I understand, in a way, why people are rejoicing, but it isn't for me and I fear that it may lead to more loss, particularly by Bin Laden supporters. You can hate me or call me un-Patriotic/American if you wish, I really don't care because that's your opinion. I don't expect everyone to agree with me, but I know that some do.

I've seen a quote floating around (I'm not sure of the author) that sums up my feelings quite well, "I mourn the loss of thousands of precious lives, but I will not rejoice in the death of one, not even an enemy. Returning hate for hate multiplies hate, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate, only love can do that."